Understanding the 8 types of affairs…

Affair recovery is a subject I’m quite familiar with considering the amount of couples who come and see me to attempt recovery after a betrayal in their relationship. I’m not going to lie, it is a difficult topic, almost always very painful for the person...

Is it ever too late to seek couple therapy?

Short answer (and at the risk of being unpopular) …. YES, but before you judge me and my answer, hear me out. For those who have seen me in counselling, you would know that I always ask new clients a couple of questions. These are; What happened for you to make...

Kink Series #4 – Adult Clubs

Welcome to a new blog where I will talk about what adult clubs are, what to expect, and a little about my thoughts so far. Moving forward in the kink series, I will leave reviews of my visits for local adult clubs as my partner and I visit them (although in my...

Kink Series: Lesson #3 – Exhibitionism

Happy new week! let’s jump straight unto this week’s topic: Exhibitionism! A cousin of last week’s topic (Voyeurism if you haven’t checked the blog out already). What is Exhibitionism? Here is a simple definition, however this one is not a bad...

Kink Series: Lesson #2 – Voyeurism

Welcome back to another week of healthy discussion on various kinks as these come up in my practice (and yes! Please feel free to request specific topics anytime). This week, we are talking about Voyeurism. As most of you will work out from the name, it involves...